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A list of useful sexting tips and examples
Let's say you are chatting with your girlfriend/boyfriend (or your pervert friend) about normal casual subjects. Could be anywhere; alone in your room at night, in your classroom trying not to fall asleep while your teacher mumbles something about contemporaneous architecture, or surrounded by relatives in a family reunion. Suddenly, the conversation start's to get interesting when one by one start emerging new themes, each one spicier than the other, such as what are you wearing, are you alone, I am getting kind of horny, so and forth. Then, you realize you have a fast heartbeat, and your mind is set on naughty mode. All this is done through sex inciter messages, photos, voice notes, even videos and phone calls to stimulate each other to create a sexual atmosphere in which pleasure is not given by physical contact, but by the senses stimulation using a simple phone.
Well, that my friends it’s exactly what Sexting means.
Of course, it's wise to mention that Sexting is way more than just talking horny BS, that's why we provide some useful Sexting tips and Sexting examples to help you having the best sexting session without screwing it up.
1.First things first. Test your ground.
Unless you both are sexting experts or nymphomaniacs, don't drop the bomb too early! bawdy phrases said before time cannot have the response you might expect. Start with some sexting examples phrases like:I can't wait to see you again and do all the things I have on my mind now... from there you can keep your tone in consonance with her responses. If she gives you green light you are ready to go! Remember, in sexting like in real sex, foreplay is important.
Another excellent sexting tip is to insert double meaning phrases into a conversation that may seem innocent. This way you can let her know that you want to start flirting and she can decide if she wants to play along.
2.Never try sexting on the first date!
On the same line of things that can be really awkward, I am sure is establishing this type of conversation right after the first date. Obviously, boundaries should be set when you start a new relationship. But this kind of sexting examples and sexting pics that can stay on her cell phone for posterity, should only be in the hands of people you truly trust. Also, it's always preferred to do sexting after having physical sexual relationship, because when we let our imagination fly sky high, we can generate huge expectations that may not be fulfilled in the reality.
Sending erotic messages is hot because it's like you were in bed talking dirty to your partner. If you start abbreviating, the magic breaks and the sensuality gets lost. When you are writing sexy stuff, write it just like you would tell it. If you are going to do something, do it the right way. It's about describing each moment you would like to materialize with your partner, in the most erotic and graphic way possible, but without extending too much! that's why our next tip is...
4.Size DOES matter!
Don't use enlarging metaphors that complicate reading, go straight to the point. The clearer your ideas and words are, the better. Here is another sexting example: I am dying to hear you say my name instead of I wish that you were horny enough to do something like saying my name.
5.Read carefully before send.
The heat of the moment can make you write too fast and wrong, and screw the moment, and even if you make up some joke about it, the passion would be irredeemably exterminated. This sexting tip can also apply to been drunk... please don't. Unless your partner is drunk too, when you write messages that are full of spelling mistakes, with no meaning or send too graphic sexting pictures with for no apparent reason, it's possible not to have the hot sexy effect you expect.
6.Don't use emoticons!
If there is a good advice for sexting is this: getting serious is exactly that! You can't compare a message like: I am waiting for you in bed... to I am waiting for you in bed :), it just takes all the sexiness out of the conversation.
7. Use your imagination.
We know girls don't often feel comfortable sending sexting pictures of herself (let's face it, can be risky for her), so you can try to be more gradual and still get a very hot result. For example, another sexting tip is to encourage her to send you photos of her body in sexy clothes for a start, some toy, a photo of her lips... and so. Remember the key in the details is also letting something to the imagination.
8. Tell her how you feel.
And we don't refer to a declaration of love. We are talking about if you are horny because of the conversation or imagining what you would do to your partner when you meet, you have to tell her. Also, if you are a girl there are few things in the world that can make a guy so horny than letting him know you are horny thinking about him. So don't hold it to yourself and tell him. And if you can't figure out what to say, just be clear: you don't imagine how you just make me feel... Also, it can be the perfect opportunity to tell him(or her) your fantasies without your partner can see you blush. It's possible that you both are disposed of and would like to fulfill your fantasy but until that moment, neither of you had dared to propose it.
9.Finish on time!
If you have a good amount of time exchanging Sexting pictures or messages and suddenly your partner stop responding, give the conversation by terminated. If you ask her why did she stop you are risking to force the moment, looking needy or even aggressive. Remember in this type of conversations it's better to be the one who finishes.
10. Last but not least Sexting tip. DELETE your cell phone history!
Always!! As soon as you finish your erotic conversation, delete all your messages and sexting pics unless your cellphone has a password or you are not ashamed that someone else read your dirt.